When Becky asked him how long he'd been divorced, he admitted that it wasn't final yet, that he was living in the basement of the home that he and his wife shared, and that they'd only been separated for three weeks.
Becky gently told her date that he needed to first pursue emotional and spiritual healing. But dating so soon will almost inevitably lead to heartache, since he's neither emotionally nor legally available.
Even though she has decided to wait a few years until her daughter is grown to reenter the dating scene, she's confused about how to proceed.
"When Madaline is out of the house I want to date, but I don't know how." Samantha has been divorced for only a year, but would like to start dating again even though her two boys are still in elementary school.
Some people hold off until engagement before introducing their significant other to their kids.
Some divorced church-goers try to convince themselves that God's command to abstain from sex doesn't apply to them — that it's for the never-married crowd.However, Scripture is clear that it doesn't matter if someone has been married or not, sex with someone other than your spouse is still fornication (I Thessalonians 4:3, I Corinthians 6:9).Don't wait to put some practical boundaries in place, such as not staying at your date's home overnight.And each new boyfriend has developed a relationship with Sharon's son, Branden.Unfortunately, Branden's father abandoned him, so it's understandable that he longs for a relationship with a father figure.One way to avoid the temptation of settling is to know what's acceptable and what's not, to both you and God, before you start looking for love.