We have slightly more women registered (56%) on He Pays than men. They are from everywhere in the world and a lot of the members come in every day.
The upstairs loft is a perfect place to entertain guests or to play.
Other dating apps or sites are very superficial only about looks.
On He Pays the woman or man decides a minimum they can be contacted with and nobody can write them below that ensuring that people are genuinely interested when writing someone else.
You can use it like any other social networking site.
What you search for and find on He Pays is totally up to you.